A MIAM is a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting. It is a private, one-to-one meeting (usually 45 to 60 minutes) where I will explain the mediation process and answer questions. You and I will consider whether mediation is suitable for your situation. In a MIAM: • You will get to hear more about the principles and the process of mediation. • You will get to share information about the situation you are in, and to tell your side of the story. • You will have the opportunity to ask any questions. You will assess whether you feel that mediation will be suitable for you and your family. • The mediator too, will be able to assess whether mediation is the right process for you.

Yes. Each person usually attends a MIAM separately before joint mediation begins. This ensures you both understand the process, and have a confidential space to share any concerns.

Yes. Online mediation via Zoom is available, and you can also choose a hybrid approach with some sessions in person and some online.

Mediation is voluntary. If the other person does not wish to mediate, I can still meet you for a MIAM to explain options and next steps, and may be able to send an invitation explaining the process.

It depends on what you need to decide and how complex your circumstances are. Many people make progress over a small number of joint sessions after their MIAMs. As your mediator, I will help you set a sensible pace.

In some cases, and only where appropriate and agreed by both parents, children (often aged 10 or above) can share their views in a safe, separate conversation (child inclusive mediation). This is handled carefully and with the child’s consent.

Mediation is confidential (with some legal exceptions) and conducted on a ‘without prejudice’ basis, meaning proposals discussed cannot usually be used in court if mediation does not proceed.

A MIAM is £100 per person. Joint sessions are £160 per person per hour (often 1.5 hours). Document drafting is £75 per person, only if documents are required. See the Fees (https://www.rskmediation.com/fees)page for examples and voucher information.

Mediation produces written proposals, but these are not automatically legally binding. If you want legal formality, you can take the documents to a solicitor who can draft a consent order or agreement for approval, where appropriate.

Mediation is designed for you to attend directly. Many people take independent legal advice outside the sessions, particularly when finances or formal agreements are involved.